Domination is a huge category. I could easily spend the rest of my career and retirement years discussing the many, many sub-niches associated with BDSM. Female domination (FemDom) is easily one of the top 5 most popular lines in phone sex. Therefore many guys call with varying levels of experience. Before I continue I would like to make a few things clear. First, domination is 100% consensual. Those who participate in the lifestyle (or a single act) do so as willing individuals. Secondly, domination is a state of mind. It’s less about whips and chains i.e., the physical, and more about your willingness to give up control.
Many of us have, thanks to cultural icons and the media, a picture of what passes as domination. Usually, there is an image of a beautiful woman, a dominatrix or mistress, dressed in leather and lace, stiletto boots and with a whip in hand. That’s easy …too easy and a bit of a cliche.
If you think about it every relationship in your life e.g., parents, siblings, schoolmates, colleagues, wife, and friends, has been an exercise in domination and submission. Face it! We are pack animals, and as is the case with social packs there is always an alpha and her followers. For example, you may be a badass at work. Your subordinates may wet themselves when walking by your office door, but when you come home to your wife, it is you who becomes a little moist because she is the one who rules the roost at home. Who hasn’t dated a sexy career woman who crumples like a wet tissue when her mother or father walks into the room? Then there are those who are always submissive whether at work or home, but you know the type of guys who pay my bills? The ones who can’t get enough of a true domme? It’s the guy who is the dom at work and home. The scrapper with his friends. The son who calls his parents out on their bullshit. He’s the guy that everyone hails as the alpha male. You see alpha males love bowing down to an alpha female.
Most guys who have bought the image of a dominant woman being solely about whips and chains are quick to say, “I don’t like pain!” Ha! I have yet to meet a guy who doesn’t enjoy the pain of holding the cum on his cock. To the same guys, I ask if they like it when their lover initiates sex, if the idea of a sexy crush seducing him through her feminine wiles was arousing or if giving up control to a sensual domme offering a guided masturbation lesson is the least bit enticing. The answer is always yes. Domination is a range – a spectrum. The only question is where are you on it?
If you like whips and chains, call us. If you like to be seduced, call us. Wherever you are on the spectrum, call us at 1-800-965-8743.